BDSM sessions have a different duration. Every session starts after we discuss all the possibilities, and I decide what we're gonna do. What kind of games are we gonna play and how far are we gonna go today? Also, if there are some taboos, we discuss them before we start to play. The time we need depends on the kind of games that we are gonna play and also how experienced the slave is. During every session, we have a different goal. Whether it can be for the slave to prove himself to me, his Mistress. Or to try something new and exciting, and to see how he is gonna feel. Or he might have to cross his own boundaries and get to the next level. During 1 session, we can play a few different games. If you use the safe word and stop the current game, we will continue the session with another game. While we play, you don't have to explain why you use the safe word. Once the session is finished, we will take a few minutes to discuss how it was for you. And how did you feel? What do you enjoy, and also why do you need to use the safe word? But while we play I prefer to keep you focused on the games, not to break the mood with an explanation and excuses and so on.

How long does it take for a session to be successful? Depends on what kind of games we have planned and what our goal is this time. Usually, 4 - 5 hours are considered a proper time for a good session. But in some cases, we can go up to 7, 8, and even 10 hours.

Also, some people need a short break in the middle, perhaps a light snack or a drink (water, cola, etc. I do not encourage alcohol consumption before or during a session).

Further, some slaves quite appreciate the bonding moment after a severe, merciless game. The aftercare once our monsters had been put to rest!

And of course, all of that requires time. I can achieve wild results, but I can't do so in 30 minutes. It's just not possible!

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